A "true" elder is able to bless all the time.
The LAMB process is helpful to me staying in that mode.
It stands for *Listen, Admire, Model,* and *Bless.
Listen *with an intent to learn and be helpful.
What is going on for the other?
*Admire* this person and let them know it.
What do you see that you want for yourself? *
Model* the behavior you think will be helpful for this person.
What of your true feelings and judgments will help this person?
*Bless* this person for his efforts and successes.
What is important to him?
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